Friday, January 27, 2023

Let's just enjoy experimenting! 30% of the results is fine, just do it 5 times faster!

 Words that stuck with me today

 

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What is "fashionable"?

"a sense of discomfort with a twist"...

 

 That's what catches people's interest

 

Make sure it doesn't become a "pun".


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It was a wonderful group of people~~~!

 

Oyama's Assembly

Impressed. 

 

Thank you very much!

 

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Thank you for yesterday! 




Akio Hiramoto often watches videos of animals on tiktok and other social media.

Them being predators, raising their young, defending themselves from enemies....

In most cases, the female is protecting them.

He said the father is often useless (lol).

 

Indeed!!!

 

Unlike the humanist point of view

If you observe human beings as animals

the answers become surprisingly clear!

 

My life from now on, 

I hope it's somethig like 

Tokyo (and all over Japan)

Tokyo → NY →PARIS → Tokyo

I would like a life like this〜

Resorts in Bali and Hawaii.

 

I also want to sing, 

so I'm imagining/visualizing

where and who is there・・・

 


I want it to be a quietly concert, like for 20~30 people

With a seminar-like element

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A place where the past you can meet the present you

and a place where you can live your future life gently.

 

I will be the background music of your life.

 

That's how I have lived my life.

 I want to live like that

 

Let's experiment more and more

and do it with ease!

30% of the results is fine, 

Just do it 5 times faster!

 

The number of times you can test your hypothesis is key!

90% of things are in a black box.



Towards the 60th birthday.

Maybe I'll start taking a documentary from now?!

 

Perhaps a unique stage on my 60th birthday party?!

 

Film, video

Stage, play

Live music and dance!


I want it to be like a 

 

A Comprehensive Arts Festival!

 

So........

A mini-concert has been decided. ha!

 

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ソフィー / 作家 on Instagram: "1/27 「地上最強夢実現グローバルサミット」 今回こちらのイベントでは、 夢実現プロデューサーの山崎拓巳さんが、 「貢献するこそ夢を実現する極意」についてお話してくださります✨ いつまでも子供のような好奇心を持ち、 どんな時でも、自分自身そして人々の成長のために 努力を惜しまず どんどん新しい世界へいって 夢を実現させ続ける拓巳さんの秘訣が、聞いちゃいます!!! ぜひ、このチャンスを逃さないでくださいね🙌 参加申込みは、プロフィールか…24 Likes, 0 Comments - ソフィー / 作家 (@sophie.mentalseed) on Instagram: "1/27 「地上最強夢実現グローバルサミット」 今回こちらのイベントでは、 夢実現プロデューサーの山崎拓巳さんが、 「貢献するこそ夢を実現する極意」についてお話してくださります✨ いつまでも子供のような好奇心を持ち、 …リンクwww.instagram.com


Thank you

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I always end up nodding my head deeply

when reading DJ AOI's newsletter!


 

Communication that is liked and communication that isn't

https://djaoi.blog.jp/archives/89900789.html?t=1


Not only only relatives, but also older ladies at work,

the type of people who are disliked (avoided) are

the ones who impose their own values on others.


Perhaps they are just talking to you because they "want to get along with you".


The only reason they are talking to you is because they want to get to know you, which is why they bring up  marriage or children.


But if you want to get along with others, the best thing to do is to listen to them

but the type of ladies who are disliked are the ones who 'talk about themselves".


For example, if you're starting your communication by 

 "Are you thinking of getting married?" 

and you introduce yourself by saying,

"I'm not thinking about it right now because I'm too busy with other things." 

If the person is willing to listen to you without negating what you say,

they give off a good impression. 


But if instead they open their mouth and say, 

"Hurry up and get married," or "Marriage is good!"

If it becomes an imposition of values, it's hard to then disagree, isn't it?

Even if it's something as meaningless as 'How are you?"

just that one point difference of "whether they want to talk or whether they want to listen" separates whether they are liked by others or not. 


I am uncomfortable with communication that feels like an imposition of values,

 but it doesn't mean that talking about marriage or love is not a good idea or that I don't want to. 


If they were my peers or juniors, I could tell them, 

'You shouldn't communicate that way.'

But with older women, it's very difficult to point out the problem.

So we have no choice but to cry ourselves to sleep.

We can do nothing but silently dislike them.


We have to look back on these people as opposite to our role models.

Let's keep this lesson in our hearts, along with the feelings of dislike. 

"When dealing with people, it's better to listen."


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Rui Hachimura played his first game for the Lakers, scoring

12 points and 6 rebounds...also talks about the reason for his number "28".



八村塁がレーカーズで初出場、12得点・6リバウンド…背番号「28」の理由も語る - LINE NEWS【ロサンゼルス=帯津智昭】米プロバスケットボール協会(NBA)、ウィザーズからレーカーズに移籍した八村塁は25日、本拠地でのスパーズ戦で移籍後初出場を果たした。約21分半プレーしリンクnews.line.me



The Lakers' number 8, which was worn by Kobe Bryant, is a permanent number. Regarding the change in his number from "8" to "28" during his time with the Wizards, Hachimura said, "I've always been the number 8 Hachimura. I knew it had to have an 8 in it for me, and since my birthday is February 8, I thought it would be a good choice."

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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s 

ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”

https://amzn.to/2DYcFkG







Thursday, January 26, 2023

I summarized about the "physical sensation" exercises that I have been practicing for the past 3 months.

 

 

Special guest Takumi Yamazaki ‼︎

I asked him many questions‼︎

/100 day marathon continues〜Day 555〜 




↓↓↓I explained on the video what I wrote here↓↓↓

山崎拓巳『母との関係性の中に 大きな宝が埋まっている。ワーク例「怒って母を罵倒する」』  昨日は笠村さんのセミナーに参加! 大きな気づきがあったよ。  この世との関わり方・・・基本は「対お母さん」にある。 そりゃそうだよね。赤ちゃんにとってお母…リンクameblo.jp

 

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Let's aim to become a  sensation geek


Aim for it! Feel Geek

Seminar on Tips for the Emotion Feeling Exercises

Asami Method Highlights


 

 



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You can watch these outstanding speakers talk for free! 


"Global Summit for Realizing Dreams" hosted by my friend Sophie Saito will be held

will be held online on Friday, 1/27 from 18:00.

 

These leaders in their respective fields are the speakers. 

 

Ms. Chichi who boasts 10 million followers in China.

Mr. Koichi Honda, who teaches the imperial science of Happiness.

Former fighter Mr. Shungo Oyama.

Mr. Ken Honda, an 8-million-copy bestselling author.

Mr. Hiroyuki Inoue, Grand Master of Subconsciousness.

Calligrapher, Mr. Soun Takeda.

James Skinner, who popularized "The 7 Habits" in Japan.

 

This is your chance to hear these people's talks

free of charge and online!

There is a limited number of seats available.

If you are interested, please hurry♪

 

https://www.mental-seed.com/saikyo-dreamcometrue-globalsummit

 

There are already 

over 1000 participants! 


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You can also watch it in Chinese with simultaneous interpretation!

 

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这个世界有非常多元的活法

这个春节给妳八种开挂式的人生活法

在他们成为很多人的光之前

都经历了人生的重启和勇敢的追梦

 

MentalSeed的创始人曹莺Sophie老师

邀请到在各行各业顶尖的成功人士

他们有日本顶尖的艺术家,畅销书作家,网络营销之神,成功学教父,职业格斗家,中国胡润百富”创新新势力”创业者等等

8位中日美三国国各行业顶尖成功人士

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深度解析成功背后的种子因

邀请你来听他们的人生重启故事

点亮你的梦想和人生

时光更迭

美好重启

2023年1月27日,17点 「Reset 重启的力量·国际高峰会」

#视频号:MentalSeed

 

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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s 

ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”

https://amzn.to/2DYcFkG




Tuesday, January 24, 2023

There is a great treasure buried in ones relationship with their mother.

Yesterday 

I joined Kasamura-san's seminar! 

 

and I had a massive realization.





The basics of how we interact with the world is found・・・

"in our relationships with our mothers." 


That makes sense. 

Afterall, for a baby

the mother is the key to the baby's survival. 

It's a life and death relationship. 


From the moment she is born

Because it starts right away

There are many misunderstandings and misconceptions.

Maybe that is called "assumption.

(Assumption is an assumption because you don't think it is an assumption.)


And it starts immediately after birth 

so of course there will be alot of misunderstandings or misconceptions. 

Perhaps that's what's called "assumptions". 

(An assumption is an assumption because you don't think it's one.) 


I experienced the greatest opportunity to 

reconstruct my relationship with the world 

by reconstructing the template that supported my belief systems. 





We relaxed our bodies・・・



to make it easier for the emotions to come out〜

 

We started with 

an exercise to let go of "fear." 


 

"I'm scared〜"

"I'm scared〜"

"I'm scared〜"


and then we moved into 

an exercise to let out "anger".


We screamed from our gut 


"FXXX you--!" 

"%*$%#"


During the exercise to


"let out disparages to your mother"

I had a huge realization!!!


For me, there was no occasion for cursing.

So I was releasing my anger in a bewildered manner

 

Then, unexpectedly,

"Cuz you're an idiot," came out of nowhere.

 

My mother was a master communicator.

but she was not the type to study hard.

 

She was good at close combat, but

she was not good at grasping the big picture.

She couldn't survive without me supporting her! 


That's what I had assumed. 

 

Wow! 

I realized that this is the template I use 

in my relations with other people 

and with the world around me!!


 

After my mother died in September 2021,

I didn't have the courage to listen to the

multiple voice messages from her on my cell phone.

Yesterday, I had the courage to listen to them.

 

For me, I had 

guilt that "I should have helped her more".


At the end, before she collapsed

I had anger toward her.

I wanted to punish her.

 

Today I realized that I lived until today carrying those emotions, 

because I didn't know how to deal with it. 

 

When I started listening to her voicemail

something collapsed and I cried.

On the bullet train from Osaka to Hiroshima

I cried.




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This is an essay I wrote shortly after my mother passed away.

 

 

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My mother was alive until yesterday afternoon.

She called me to tell me that the fish paste I sent her 

from Kagoshima the other day had arrived.


And then

she collapsed in the evening.

 

I heard my brother's voice panicking on the other end of the phone and

and my sister's voice explaining the situation

I knew intuitively that she might not make it.

 

My brother called me from the hospital.

Next, I received a LINE from my sister...

My mother had gone to heaven.

 

I want to see you 

more.

I wanted to talk with you

 more.

 

But that will no longer come true. 

She is no longer here.

 

My mother had asthma since childhood.

She always breathed with a rasping sound in her throat.

 

I was prepared to think that her life would end with a painful breath.

 

However, 

the situation is that she went to get a beer from the storage room outside and

it seems she collapsed on the front porch.

 

It was only 20 minutes 

before my brother went out and my sister found her. 

 

It's hard to believe〜

I went to my parents' house today.

I touched my mother's breath who was alive just a little while earlier. 



My mother suddenly disappeared from my world...

She is gone.

 

When I saw my dead mother all made up,

it looked like she would wake up and talk to me soon.

 

"Mommy, Thank you."

Sumie as a child was burnt black from sunburn.

She worked very hard.

 

As an adult, I worked with her.

I learned so so much from her.

 


When she became a grandma,

she also strolled the streets of Paris and welcomed the children home.

 

Looking back, I have nothing but good memories.

I can picture Sumie drinking beer in every scene.

 

We went to Bali many times together〜

She came to Tokyo many times too〜

She left us at the end of the summer of 2021.


 

I came out of a dream when I decided "to do it."

It was Yayoi-san's seminar.

Other than that, many fake headlines also came to me.

You taught in my dream that the important thing is to decide "to do it".


 

I used go be able to connect with Sumie at the touch of a button on my cell phone.

Now she is gone.

 

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When I read it back like this

I can recall the feelings I had at that time.

 

〜〜〜now  back to the seminar〜〜〜

 

Also, in the

exercise to "let out anger towards someone you hate"

I participated in the seminar wondering if I had anger inside me.


 

but something huge came out. 

I was surprised to find out that it was more than anger, it was a curse.


It was not "You're a stupid idiot〜!

It was the voice of the devil saying,

"I'll show you what happens!" 



He grins and smiles thinly and

angrily and indirectly let his emotions fly.

It was a demon, not a sweet thing.

 

It was 

Directly 

and certainly 

a curse. 


If you do something like that

bad things would really happen to that person

and cause the person to die.

It was accompanied by the horror of death.



I thought this is why I was containing the anger.

We moved the focus that tries to escape to thoughts,

to the physical sensation.

 

Then don't blame me if things go wrong

You're the one who's at fault.

I found the cold sensation.

 

I know this great demon

I've been trying to contain it.

I'm convinced that 

this demon is the god that embodies things.

 

I've been trying to contain the negative, 

but because positive and negative coexist and are one and the same,

I have also contained the positive force.

 

Back to the physical sensation.



I learned alot from Kasamura-san 

as she answered the questions from the participants. 


 

To the question,

 "I'm having trouble with my relationship with my husband."

"Should I leave him?"

 

The answer she gave left an impression. 

"You should stay together."

And from the various experiences that arise through this "awkward relationship"

feel the "physical sensations" and release it. 


 

Instead of escaping to what you think will be better, 

by putting yourself in a bad situation, 

and feeling through the emotional experience that arise, 

you can clear the world inside of you. 



Instead of running away from a bad environment

Use that environment as more opportunities and chances to feel.

 

 

Speaking of which

I remember Kasamura-san saying that the year-end and New Year's

is an opportune time. 


Because during these holidays people go back to their hometown,

and enter into close relationships with people.

Especially parents and children...

 

Many things come up that 

irritate you 

piss you off 

or bother you 


It's a treasure trove of opportunities to feel



So, she also recommended, 

"How about going back to your parents' house once!?"


Her face clouded over, because that's what she least wanted to do. 

Because that place is a "treasure trove of hazy feelings".

It is also a "treasure trove of opportunities."

 




For those who want to know more↓↓↓This might be easy to understand

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHrUNoBxcRE

 

 



Try shaking your body to get the pent up stuff out?!

 

There is a great treasure buried 

in your relationship with your mother. 


Meeting Yuko Kasamura is big for me〜

 

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It's not anything difficult. 

 

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 about your relationship with your mother

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Today will be cold

 

From tomorrow, the cold wave will be the strongest in a decade, and heavy snow and blizzards will disrupt traffic (tenki.jp) 

 

https://u.lin.ee/rnbLv0U?mediadetail=1&utm_source=line&utm_medium=share&utm_campaign=none

 

The "Strongest Cold Wave" in 10 Years: Heavy Snow Possible from the 24th. 

Beware of freezing water pipes and road surfaces [Weather Forecaster's Commentary].


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Hiroshima lifts my mood somehow!

Ayaka ▲▲▲Arigato▲▲▲Gozaimasu

 



 

When I meet everyone

I'm bursting with excitement〜〜〜!

 

37 years ago on February 5th

My stopped clock started ticking!

 

This February 5th.

I'll be in Melbourne for a seminar!

 

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Takumi Yamazaki's Seminar information


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This sea urchine watercress is sooooo good〜〜

Nakachan @Yagenbori

 

I've been coming here for almost 40 years!



みんなでパシリ!(笑)


Thank you for pouring!

Takumi Yamazaki gets drunk on non-alcoholic beer.


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What?!

Just happening to meet by chance on a remote Okinawan island?!

 

 


I'm going to Hamamatsu on the 3rd〜

I'm looking forward to meeting you all!

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Why not start meditation?!

 

What is meditation?!

 

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〜This explains alot about meditation〜〜

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Wizards' Rui Hachimura Moves to Lakers,...

U.S. media report 

Aiming to increase scoring and advance to the playoffs



ウィザーズ八村塁がレーカーズへ移籍、米メディア報道 得点力アップとプレーオフ進出狙い獲得へ - LINE NEWS米バスケットボールNBAのウィザーズ八村塁選手(24)が、トレードでレーカーズへ移籍することが23日(日本時間24日)、明らかになった。スポーツ専門局「ESPN」が伝えた。名門レーカーズは、スリンクnews.line.me___________________________


Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s 

ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”

https://amzn.to/2DYcFkG