I'm back in Shima now！
I went to Ise Shrine！
I definitely prefer Ise Shrine with less people〜(heh)
Shima ocean is so beautiful〜
This time was pretty busy・・・
It’s too bad that I didn't have the chance to meet with everyone in Mie.
Tomorrow I'm starting work in Osaka！！！
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"DJ Aoi"'s blog from the new year is so well put!
When people don't feel needed by other people,
it's easy to question or wonder about your own worth?
So what sort of people are actually needed by others?
Someone with good grades
Someone that has a good appearance
Someone who is cheerful and sociable
Someone who is good at what they do
Someone who has strong connections
Someone with a lot of money
All of these may be conditions for "someone who is needed"
but who decided on these conditions to begin with?
All of these are conditions decided on by others, and trying to meet those conditions
is the root cause of what causes people to lose sight of their own worth and value of existence.
Are there even people who meet all of these types of conditions?
Are people who don't meet these conditions unneeded by anyone?
Don't most people have two or three flaws?
And isn't that what makes them lovable?
For me at least, if someone smiles and listens to what I have to say,
I feel that person's worth and value in existence.
What's important is that you yourself decide your own worth.
If you can think, "f@cK" the conditions that someone else has decided, then all is well.
There is no more dangerous idea that to allow others to decide the value of your own life.
After all, your true value and worth isn't found in the approval or evaluation of others.
To begin with,
I think there is value in
Ask yourself of your own value of existence.
There is overwhelming value in your life,
in the struggle you are facing now to discover it.
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Desire for approval is
the desire to be approved of by others.
More than being approved of by others
or outdoing others,
Become someone who approves of
and continues to approve of others.
This is it!
But, if you "wonderfulness!" is unclear,
then its easy to want or feel like you need the approval of others〜
↓↓↓Please have a look at this article again＝↓↓↓
Seek to meet "others needs for recognition" rather than "your own need for recognition"
