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DJ AOI-san↓↓↓Wow！
If you point out the bad points about others, thinking it will help them grow--you'll be on the path straight to ruin
http://djaoi.blog.jp/archives/83563888.html?t=1
If you really trust each other, then you should be able to point things out to each other
It's a phrase you've most likely heard more than once
Thinking it's for the other person
a very hiiiigh consciousness theory
I get it if its in the work place
but what about for friends or lovers of marriages???
You are the one who knows the least in the world about your own strong lints,
and knows the best about your weak points
Pointing those out to each other only gives me the impression of "I already know that!"
Talking about growth or raising the human level etc .
Those are probably friendships or love relationships on a different dimension to begin with.
Normal people are surviving in this human society already,
most people want their friendships or lovers to be a place of rest, not another place for "growth"
Please don't bring up "growth" in a place where you go to rest.
I'll forgive your weaknesses if you forgive mine. That's how I feel.
Don't point out each others weaknesses with a straight face,
at very least just keep it to teasing.
It's a very fine line.
No reason to be foolish, but no reason to take life too seriously either
Trust isn't born without the right balance
If you point out the bad points about others, thinking it will help them grow--you'll be on the path straight to ruin
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This too
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Returning rudeness with rudeness
Courtesy with courtesy
Either one is a "reflection"
but passive people often have the strongest tendency for reflecting.
A friend did something rude
You don't know if they meant it or not
but you felt it was "rude"
So you return it with "rudeness"
and breakdown the relationship
If you won't regret it then that's not a problem
but what do you think would happen if you returned it with "courtesy"?
Even if someone was rude, return it with courtesy
if you keep that posture
then what is reflected next time is also courtesy
You are the one who returned with courtesy
so you become the person taking the lead
This is the only way you can win against rudeness
Is it only me that feels that ache when returning rudeness with rudeness
feeling like you succumbed to it?
It's all the more reason if you feel pissed off by it
that even if its just stubbornness to return it with courteousness
What the other person feels when being returned courtesy to their rudeness
is "embarrassment"
If you want them to feel that way,
it's all the more reason why I recommend fighting rudeness with politeness
It's a much more effective route
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Bashar girl
Thank you so much！
I'm looking forward to receiving your photos too〜〜〜
Thank you！
I'm looking forward to the art〜〜〜
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