Had a power lunch today!!
SHIGE, a best selling author who sold over 600,000 copies of hit book in only this year〜〜〜
【Way of Talking is 90%】
There are ways of talking to be liked 100%
More important than your skill, your mental state is important !!!
People aren't good at talking in places where they don't feel safe.
People are talkative in places they feel safe.
Creating an all-affirming space!!!
You need to create that space.
1)What you have interest in is yourself
2)Everyone wants affirmation
3)Everyone likes people who understands them
If you improve your way of talking
you will be liked by others!!!
Way of talking means way of listening!!!
People like people who smile!
Expanding way of talking
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1)Admiration
2)Iteration
3)Resonate
4)Praise
5)Questions
Expression, voice, your whole body!!!!
You don't have to talk with people you don't like〜〜〜
You don't need to try to shorten the distance !!!
The right way to introduce yourself
1)Bullet points about yourself
2)Omission
3)Keywords
More than your career history,
your heart and gratitude
The right way to listen to someone asking for advice
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Advice is unnecessary
Resonate
NG list
・Changing your attitude depending on the person
・4D words "but/because/anyway/can't"
Verbal habits are character habits
・Bad-mouthing
・More than being liked, work on not being disliked
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Dai Tamesue speaks
"The true identity of limits~ How to get out of the invisible cage"
What are true limits ?
What decides your limits?
What hinders you from running fast?
Mindset
↓↓↓
It controls you
Your beliefs, ways of thinking
A majority of high school baseball players
were born in April/May/June!
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Today I received coaching by Akio Hiramoto!
I was once again convinced that
『success』=『vitality』
Increasing your vitality as a living being
To do that ・・・
Sleep well
Eat well
Play well (lol)
Just playing this increases your vitality UP
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