Can you answer these four questions about your friends? If you can't, can you really say you are adding value?

  

 

Events in Toyosu

Happy-chan and Hiroyuki Irie

 

 

 

 

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Today I had tempura for lunch!

 

 

Roppongi

“Lucky Burger” near the New National Stadium

 

 

I'd love for you to eat this! 

It's amazing!

 

 

It's this!

 

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Akio Hiramoto

Keiichi Arai

Takumi Yamazaki

 

@Osaka

 

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Thank you for today!

 

 

Life map was wonderful too!

 

 

Terakoya Totonou is starting too!

Only people under 25 can participate!

 

 

Thanks to Nakamura-kun!

 

 

Today I initiated  4 people 

INTO A DREAM!

 

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SIMON SINEK

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"Start with WHY" ◯

Not WHAT, but WHY

 

 

How to make friends

 

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Why are friends important?

 

The mouse experiment

Water with drugs/plain water. 

 

When the mouse was on its own, it easily got addicted to the 

water with drugs

 

The mouse with family and friends

drinks the normal water

 

Addiction is attracted by loneliness

e.g. mobile phone addiction, sugar addiction

 

Doing something at the expense of something else

↓↓↓

Sometimes it's a who. maybe it's time to put a name on it. 

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Facing reality

 

You sometimes cancel things because of work, right?

But not the other way around? No!

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When something happens, who helps you?

Your work or your friends?

 

In the past,

having friends and community met many of our emotional needs

as social creatures, 

but now, because we have less, 

we put all our expectations on our lover or on our work. 

We seek to get friendship, companionship, fulfillment and all the things from it. 

It's a lot of pressure

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Let's ask our friends for help

Why don't you show your weaknesses?

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Being vulnerable brings connection. 

 

Brendon Burchard

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Four questions...can you answer these questions about your team or about your friends?

Do you know....

1) What they need right now?

2) Who they most want to meet?

3) What do they love to do? 

4) Who do they love the most? 

 

Can you answer these questions about your team members? 

If you can't

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Can you really say you are providing value? 

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Do this first, before trying to achieve high goals or saying you want a "better" friend group. 

First be a good friend to the one you already have. 

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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s 

ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”

https://amzn.to/2DYcFkG

I'm not good at setting goals. That's a lie! You simply haven't come across a goal that you really want to achieve!

October has started!

 

There's a whole blank month in front of me!

 

What kind of month would make me so unbelievably happy?

 

What kind of feelings should I put in the center to make it a wonderful month?

 

↓↓↓

 

Ayumu Takahashi said to me

↓↓↓

"You look busy, but

aren't you slacking off in life?"

 

Keisuke Oshima reacted to this phrase.

 

He said he used it at a seminar (lol).

 

In response to this,

Takuya Fujimoto candidly? said that there are people who are at the stage 

where they should be doing what they want to do, 

and others who must do what needs to be done. 

You have to look at (consider) the audience when you talk, 

and you have to listen to them.

 

That's true.

That's so true.

 

That's why it's important to read books, Mr. Fujimoto continues.

The point is that you have to learn.

 

Right now,

I'm captivated by the word “possibility”.

I've been captivated by it for a long time, says Mr. Oshima.

 

Challenges and adventures.

The word “possibility” excites me. 

 

In response, Fujimoto-san

taught us the importance of extracting the four words that describe ourselves

 

What would they be for me?

↓↓↓

Growth/Sublimation

Learning/Realization/Inspiration

Contribution/Supporting the growth of others

Sitting in the mud with someone (this is difficult for me ~ーー needs work on)

 

The first stage is to find it. (those 4 words--basically, your highest values) 

The second stage is to head towards it.

The act of heading towards it is a contribution to others.

 

Philosophy of Life

Having a philosophy of life

 

I've been searching for the words that really express this for many years.

Mr. Fujimoto says that his job is to support people in this search.

 

When those words emerge

a vision is born

and goals come into focus

and the purpose of “for what” comes alive...

All of this in total is part of 'desire'.

 

The essence of human beings is desire!

Is that from Mr. Hisui?! 

 

When people say, 

I  have no dreams.

I don't know myself.

That's because...

you aren't asking yourself enough questions. 

 On Motivation, 

If you have to leave the house at 8:40 in the morning,

but you woke up at 8:30.

Will you make it? Will you be motivated?

Nope. 

The goal is too high. 

 

What if the goal was to leave at 12:00?

I suddenly have time.

Slowly and leisurely (lol)

This is a goal that's too low.

 

Departure at 9!

Oh no!

I've got to hurry!

That's a good goal!

 

Reacting to the events in front of you

You can't just react to situations!

Achieving your goals is all about setting them!

 

I'm not good at setting goals.

↓↓↓

"I want to go out for dinner with you"

If a cute girl said that to you,

what would you say?

 

“When are we going?” right?

 

When you want to do something,

you always set a goal and make a plan.

 

What if you don't?

You'll likely say “Yeah, that's a good idea” and make up some excuse. 

You won't set any goals or make any plans.

 

It's not that I don't have any goals

but that they're simply not goals you actually want to achieve.

 

Achieving your goals is 100% about setting them!

 

Are they goals that will lead you to your desires?!

 

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However, my meeting with Hidetoshi Tomabechi yesterday

I think will end up being a life-changing event.

 

Setting a crazy dream (desire)

that you don't even know how to achieve

A dream that involves structural change

 

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You set a plan for that

However, the next day, that's all in the past

 

To always be under the spell of memories of the future,

you must make a plan for that dream again today. 

Don't get stuck in yesterday.

 

Don't use past memories

Write a story today that uses only your future memories!

 

And・・・

 

The story that had the strongest impact was

 

that if you have someone by your side who believes in you 

and wishes for your success

unreservedly without any conditions, you will definitely succeed.

 

If you are a leader

or a coach

 

doing this is your job!

 

 

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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s 

ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”

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Are you making choices with an eye on the goal? Are you making choices in response to what's in front of you? It's a completely different life!

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You can also take part in weekly Q&A group consultations

 

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You can also attend seminars by the teachers below.

 

 

Are you going straight for your desires?

If it's for someone else's benefit too, 

then you're a “happy success story”.

 

A OR B

No

It's both A and B!

 

Ideal world = desire

 

That is

A goal - by when

A purpose - for what, for whom, why?

A sense of values - what you want to cherish, what kind of person do you want to be?

 

All world views = desires

 

Are you making choices towards your goal?

Are you making choices in response to what is in front of you?

 

Depending on your answer, you will live a  completely different life!

 

 

The feeling of being in control of your own life

= happiness

 

The difference between management and leadership is

↓↓↓

 

・Management is

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  “verbalizing” what “must be done”,

  “standardizing” it into “rules and manuals”, and “managing” it

 

・Leadership is

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  "making people want to do what must be done”

 Devise a business model that can pay an overwhelmingly high salary

by working backwards

 

All Win

 

Consult with your own desires!

 

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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s 

ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”

https://amzn.to/2DYcFkG