Once again, by DJ Aoi
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When unpleasant things happen,
"sadness" or "insecurity" or "despair"
That is what's called the
What comes after that primary emotion is sometimes
『anger』
This is what's called the 『secondary emotion』
This is where it gets a little complicated
And if this 『anger』develops a further it can turn into
『ridicule』or『bullying』.
This is the tertiary emotion
It's gotten two cycles more complex from the primary emotion, so I think it is safe to say that its pretty twisted by now.
People who make fun of others are in fact angry people, and angry people are in fact people who are sad
It means that at the core, they have this feeling of 『sadness』
What should be communicated to people is the primary emotion
For example, even if you get angry saying "why can't you do even this!?" the only message that will get across is that "someone got mad at me." 『Anger』communicates absolutely nothing of what you want to communicate.
If this turns into a tertiary expression it gets even worse
"What the hell? You can't even do something so simple?"
The message that gets across here is almost non-existent. Expressing emotions in a way that only communicates aggressiveness is the same as violence
What should be communicated is the primary emotion
"I asked you to do it because I thought you could..." You just need to communicate in an honest way
The rest, the other people will realize and possibly get hurt on their own
That's what it means to express things with a message
There is no need to go out of your way to hurt people
If you start to feel anger rising up, be sure to look for the primary emotion that is at the core of it
Anger communicates nothing, and anger goes unrewarded
If you want to communicate something, then rather than expressing with anger, express with sadness.
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Yesterday I was in Okayama
Thank you everyone〜
We went to have game meat afterwards
Irimo-kun's karaoke was so great!
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Appreciation to everyone from each region
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Free lecture by Chairman Yoshida in Kochi prefecture!
Wow〜 More and more people are going to be moved to tears! lol
Laugh, cry and be moved・・・
