Saturday, December 20, 2025

Don’t Build for the Strong — Build So the Unconfident Can Last

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It's winter〜〜〜

 

 

Yesterday, I kicked off starting writing my 64th book 📚✨

So nervous… and excited!

 

 

Niizono-san,
Kan-chan—thank you!!

Kyoto takusando 🥪✨
So happy! Thank you for visiting


Takusando in Kyoto

 

 

And birthdays in Osaka

 

 

37 years old?!

 

 

 

 

Yuri-chan is holding a solo art exhibition!
Just behind Omotesando Hills!

 

 

 

Congratulations!

 

 

 

I bumped into Ms. Somi!

 

 

 

Such a lovely dinner with beautiful people!
Thank you!

 

Our coaches gathered from morning!

 

 

Wow〜〜〜

 

 

I'll join online tonight〜〜

 

See you there

 

 

Key Learnings from Today’s Talk by Ryuta Saeki

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0) The Big Picture (What’s the core message?)

In one sentence, this talk proposes:

Not a “success method for the strong,”
but a system for building teams where people who lack confidence
or move at a slower pace can still stay and grow.

To support this, Saeki shares
how to design a non-dropout culture and a sequence for building trust,
grounded in his own life experience on the “weaker side.”

 

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1) Self-Introduction (Why he talks about this) 

  1. Foundational experiences as the “weaker side”

    • Grew up with factors that easily damage self-esteem:
      short stature, poor academic performance, bullying, and a delinquent environment.

  2. Experiencing “effort not being rewarded” in society

    • Performed well in a factory and took on quasi-management roles,
      but faced extreme overtime → then had evaluations and compensation cut
      due to systems and company convenience.

  3. A turning point through a business opportunity

    • The shock of realizing,
      “Even someone like me could start” and “my life’s foundation changed”
      became the basis of his current values.

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2) His Definition of "Attractiveness" 

    1.    Not the ability to look good— but the ability not to break even when seen badly

    •    Builds resilience to others’ evaluations and misunderstandings, strengthening one’s core way of living.

 

    2.    We evolve because we are incomplete.

    • “Lacking” is not shameful; it’s the doorway to growth. Tomato metaphor: stress (water restriction) brings out sweetness—pressure reveals essence.

 

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3) His Core Philosophy of Team Management (The Heart of the Talk) 

 

A. Don’t set standards based on fast people

  • If you benchmark “people who can do it quickly,” those who can’t lose their sense of value and leave.

  • Therefore, the maximum goal is “one person per year is enough.”

B. “Lotus leaf” growth = exponential design

  • If one person brings one person, that’s 200% growth.

  • Even if everyone brings just one person per year, it looks like rapid expansion from the outside.

  • Outsiders think “the know-how is amazing,” but inside, everyone is struggling—just little by little.

C. Leaders are at risk of demanding too much

  • The more capable a leader is, the more they expect the same of others.

  • This leads to:

    • “Why can’t you do this?”

    • “How many times do I have to tell you?”

  • The other person concludes, “I’m not cut out for this,” and leaves.

  • The countermeasure: Base standards not on what people “have,” but on what they “don’t have.” Put humility at the center.

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4) Redesigning Recruitment Pathways (Preventing dropouts) 

 

A.  Don't lead with "you can make money"

    •    For people with low confidence or credibility (young people or those who are “nobody yet”), emphasizing “easy income” or “quick money” causes:

 

    •    Trust collapse due to the gap with reality

    •    Blame-shifting (company’s fault, team’s fault

    •    Increased dropouts

    •   So the entry point should be belonging and trust, not income dreams.

 

B. Teach “bias and misunderstanding” before marketing plans

    •    People easily generalize (e.g., one scandal → the whole group is bad).

    •    Teach this as bias / misbelief, and train discernment (separation of causes).

    •   Not “Amway is bad,” but “my way was flawed”—separating structure from execution.

 

C.  Rule: “Have a business name”

    •    To avoid quitting by blaming the company, each person holds their own business name. This ensures ownership and clarifies responsibility.

 

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5) The Order of Human Relationships (What to do BEFORE bringing someone in) 

    1.  Don’t throw new people straight into a huge, storm-like environment

    2.   First, build relationships over meals or tea

    3.  Trust before information

    4.  Once trust exists, connection to the community happens naturally

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6)  Concrete ways to create "Comfort" in a Team

    1.  Prioritize comfort (good environment) even when results aren’t coming yet

    2.    Study and eliminate dropout triggers:

    •    Signing people up when emotions are high → crash next day → dropout

    •    Telling parents at the wrong timing → backlash → dropout

    •    Applying pressure like “You must come” → dropout


    3.  Structural reforms to prevent dropouts

    •    Easy-to-exit Zoom operations

    •    Encouraging rest, addressing sleep deprivation (oxygen capsules, etc.)

    •    No forced “hardcore mode” standards

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7) Understanding the Times (Adapting to Gen Z and Gentler work styles)

    •   A world designed only for “hardcore grinders” burns people out.

    •   The value of “hardcore is okay, but never mandatory” is spreading.

    •   Therefore, systems like Amway need to allow multiple tracks (hardcore / mild).

 

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8) New Concept: "Pre Business" Design

    •    Immediately after signing up, treat it not as “business,” but as pre-business (training / runway).

    •    It becomes a business only when the person decides, “This is my business.”

    •    The sole goal is simple: people don’t drop out.

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9) Conclusion--Key Takeaways 

    1.    Set standards where slower people can stay (one person per year is fine)

    2.   Trust → relationship → information → community (keep the order)

    3.    Don’t impose strong-person standards (humility = “lack-based” )

    4.   Place bias-unraveling training at the entry point

    5.   Build structures that remove reasons to quit (pre-business, comfort, care)

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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s 

ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”

https://amzn.to/2DYcFkG