ANTHONY ROBBINS
DAY 3 from 10 pm〜 (Summary)
Thank you everyone who shared their notes with me!
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Watched a video of a certain man
"Let's think about love in life!"
Relationships ・・・
What is lacking in this man's life?
What values should he place importance on for things to get better?
Certainty, Uncertainty (change)
Significance (feeling special), Love and connection
Growth, Contribution...
↓↓The content of the video
When he sees his grandchild, his heart is softened and his countenance gets better
However, his countenance isn't like that towards his children or wife.
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"BELIEFS"
His beliefs towards his grandkids are =beautiful state
"Unconditional love"
Without filters=without rules
【Public session】
Tony Robbins
"Look at your wife the same way that you look at your grandchildren"
They gaze at each other ・・
The wife's expression turns into a smile all at once and she kisses him!
They hug. The audience cheers.
The man loves his wife, but he wasn't in a beautiful state.
That's why his words became harsh
・Without unconditional love
・There were rules
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⭐️It's better to have less rules for relationships
Relationship
If you keep on wanting something,
it will break your relationships.
For this man, his main need was significance 、、、
Not communicating with words from your heart
But using the voice of your heart →That's what will communicate love
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When people are young,
when they do something against their parents wishes
they are hit or scolded. ="Fear" is wired in there
But what they fear most ="being ignored"
Unconditional love
We learn through experience that if we do as our parents please, we can get love.
→That's why as adults, we seek unconditional love.
Relationship
We tend to quickly push our values onto others and judge others.
What did the man in the video lack?
→Love and connection
Continuing to have passion for each other over tens of years = True love
→ Not taking it for granted. Gratitude
【Public session】
The two gaze at each other (husband→ to the wife )
Retake
Husband drinks water, Take 2
The differences of femininity and masculinity
・Masculine→Want to solve
・Feminine→Want to be listened to
Women are hard on themselves
This time about appearance.
⭐️Result→
The person that the other person is seeing
is close to the real person. More than they thought.
Perhaps she is hard on others too 、、、
On the other hand men、、、lol
Think they are cool!
So the picture the artist draws hearing the characteristics from their own mouth
is really handsome.
But if someone else describes his characteristics
it becomes something totally different.....lol
Anthony Robbins
"Explanations are not necessary. Don't explain, but have the feel you love them"
Communicate not with words but with the heart.
When that was communicated, the two are overwhelmed with love 👏
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No matter how many times you fail
→ Get into a beautiful state.
Then things will go well!!!
What is important to do that is "physiology first!!"
Use your body to raise your mental state!!
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Anthony Robbins documentary (Netflix)
→ https://www.netflix.com/title/80102204?s=i&trkid=13747225
(Tony Robbins) YouTube
＜UPW DAY3 Share＞
V=Visual
A=Auditory
K=Kinesthetic
O=Olfactory
G=Gustatory
Leadership is having
absolute conviction
and that that spreading to members
Beliefs are
birthed and broken
Beliefs and values
Values are the state of your emotion
Values are most important
What values do you have
What are the values you want to get closest to
What are the values you want to avoid most
It's because you have those values
that you want to emulate
and the values you want to avoid
that humans are complex.
People will do anything to avoid pain
more than to gain pleasure
That's why the values you want to avoid
will affect you greatly
For example, if
the values you want to emulate Success
The values you want to avoid Rejection
In that case,
the reality will be that the more you succeed,
the more you will be rejected,
so in order to avoid rejection,
you'll be going one step forward and three steps back
Your beliefs are like the bulls eye
Values show you the direction
If you change your beliefs,
your life will change
Two types of belief
1.Common world wide beliefs
・Life is
・I am
・People are
You are living out the beliefs that you have
The beliefs you created yourself
are causing the actions you take towards others
If you continue to say it with confidence, it will become your truth
People want to generalize
What are your own beliefs
If you change your beliefs,
your life will change
2. Rules are beliefs
If you are sure about something, they become rules
People are fighting about each others rules
If you have a rule that
if you make more than your parents did, you'll hurt them,
then you'll take action not to make more than them.
There is a price to all beliefs
You can't see values with your eyes but they are what control you
The truth is behind those values you want to avoid
Dickens process
1.Leverage
2. Break your patterns with massive action
3. Create good beliefs to replace the old patterns
Modeling
You have to read the path ahead of you
The ultimate power is the power of predicting
Losers react
Complexity is the enemy of action
Don't try to do too much at once.
Follow the 3 steps below
The Law of Mastery
1. Modeling
(It's easier to learn if its from someone you like)
Learn from someone who is already gaining the results yu want
What do you want to gain from your body?
What you really want is "energy"
2.Total Immersion
(Story about POLO)
Spend time with outstanding people
3.Spaced Repetition
The factors that create wealth
80% Psychological
20% Skill
Instead of trying to get love from your partner
You give love
If you want the greatest gift in life
you have to control your own emotions and values
Your relationships will be equal to your state
In partnership, its important to see
not the differences in values
but the differences in energy
If you don't have energy,
relationships will die.
If you learn about masculinity and femininity
the world will change
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Memo from Sasa-san ・・・
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Raising your mental state with your body, not your mind！
Next month I'll go to Mt. Koya with Morinaga-san 〜〜〜
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