『Demon Slayer』
Is a Japanese Manga by Yosei Gotoge
- Perhaps what's amazing about Tanjiro Kamado is that he・・・
- converses with his primary emotions？！
- To the person who comes at him slashing, he said, "you're so kind"
Primary emotions・・・
For example"anger"
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What is the "primary emotion" that comes before anger?
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Ask yourself, "Why am I so upset?" 〜〜〜〜〜
There are usually "triggers" that come before it that it turns into "anger"
What is the "emotions" in your heart
and the primary emotion 〜〜〜
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If there is not so much water in the cup to begin with, people don't usually get so angry.
What is in your cup?
Probably most people have had days that "I feel grumpy from morning today" What days are those? Those are days where there is already alot of water in your cup.
The water in that cup, generally decreases if you get good sleep. However, if too many full cup days continue, and you aren't able to sleep well, then the water in the cup doesn't decrease even if you sleep.
When that happens, then since from the time you wake up your cup is already full, you feel irritated. So it shows just how much us staying healthy really effects our mental state. Staying healthy, on top of controlling our emotions is so important.
Once you undersatnd this system, what happens is, that you can even communicate with people who are angry. Who are people who are angry? People whose cups are overflowing.
So what everyone should do when they are speaking with someone who is angry is, focus on the primary emotion they were feeling before it turned into anger.
When talking to someone who is placing a complaint, instead of focusing on the anger, focus on the emotions they were undoubtedly feeing before the anger.
Are they angry beause things are touh, or because they are suffering or anxious? Focus on "what did they feel that made them upset"
Once you understand that, then you'll be able to gain trust and a feeling of secureness with those who are angry.
So when talking to people who are angry, try to see "what were they feeing before they got angry?"
Once you can do that, then angry people themselves are no longer scary.
You simply need to understand that being angry means that they primary emotion has overflowed.
By the way, there are people in the world who tend to get more angry more often than others. The difference between those people is the size of their cups. Those with larger cups don't get angry as easily. And those with small cups tend to get angry easier.
Those with small cups tend to get angry easier. Those with a larger cup don't get angry as easily.
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Oriraji Nakata
legendary speech
"I will become 3rd generation J SOUL BROTHERS"
~Secret story of the birth of the PERFECT HUMAN~
Kinki University (Hiroshima Campus) Reiwa entrance speech
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCFAvwJybkw&feature=youtu.be
It was actually a very difficult position give a speech in 〜〜〜
It was wonderful！！！
Good job！！！
Dreams are
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to tell someone
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to get the help of someone
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to not give up on
