Mr. Fujimoto went to see fortune teller (Tamako Suisho）・・・
Everything she said hit the nail on the head.
When he asked her How do you know?! she said・・・
Life is decided
She said that everyone lives their lives that are decided,
and all experience a level of their own happiness.
And they struggle controlling their emotions when things don't go well
and then make different decisions than usual
choose words they wouldn't normally choose
or actions they wouldn't normally take
and then that takes their life off course ・・・
Life is about "emotions"
And as long as we put forth the effort,
all in life will go well.
Don't make decisions based on emotions. Let reason make your decisions
DJ AOI-san's messages are always so timely 〜〜〜〜
↓↓↓
Anger is a self-defense mechanism
To make sure that your mental state doesn't go crazy from the anxiety
anger is of switching the anxiety into anger to try to protect your own heart.
This is a common tendency especially amongst those who are negative to begin with.
Having said that, people are not so tolerant to read your anger as anxiety or insecurity.
Most of the time the only message that gets across is "I'm grumpy you piece of XXX ...."
Even if you impulsively got angry and was able to protect your mind, it won't solve the core problem.
The situation that is making you anxious will build up and becomes a bad cycle that leaves you even more angry.
Basically you can't change anything through anger.
The worst thing you can do is let emotions and emotions collide
Even if you face anger with more anger, it will only put oil on the fire
To those who respond with their emotions, please respond with all-out reason
When you are dominated by anger, thinking stops.
People stop thinking with their head.
That's why the responses of people who are angry are all messed up,
because they start losing track of what they are saying themselves
and more often than not, end up saying things they don't mean or regret.
What is important is getting them to use their brains
If they can use their head, anger will subside and you can raise the issue to the ring of discussion.
To do that speak on behalf of what that person is wanting to say
"Is this what you want to say?" and translate their anger.
Help to verbalize that person's emotions,
and let that enter through their ears (even though its a hassle)
then eventually what was all messy in their brains starts getting organized
and they can finally use their heads
and prepare to have a proper discussion.
It's doing for them what actually they should do for themselves.
It's a real hassle like I said,
so if you really must, think of the other person like a baby that can't talk properly yet, and help to take care of their emotions.
The future may concern you
but try not to let your emotions make the decisions
but have your reason make the decision.
That is what discussion is for.
If you decide to move forward on impulsive emotions
it will be inconsistent and you will regret it.
Even if you decide to divorce,
unless you make it a meaningful divorce,
it will just be a dirty stain.
＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿
↓↓↓
Wow this really speaks to me〜〜〜
＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿
The "kosui" song in Shonai dialect♪
God, is this okay〜？！
Will sell this on Takumania〜〜
Please use it as a lucky charm〜〜〜
I don't know when it will be sold yet but will update you soon 〜〜〜
Wow〜〜
Grateful to everyone in each region！
I'll leave last night's live on IGTV 〜〜〜
＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿
Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s
ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”
