Everyone recommends me to watch "Crash Landing on You"
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Also that "NIZI PROJECT" is fun・・・
I've just now started season 3 of "Paper House" !
They're just about to dig down ・・・
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Greeks stoicals・・・
Use your consciousness not on "what you cannot control"
but on "what you can control"
but on "what you can control"
Other people and the past cannot be controlled
Your self and your future, no ・・・
Your self and your future, no ・・・
bring your consciousness to "you now"
You can decide freely.
The surrounding conditions・・・you cannot control.
However, what is is that you can control even in such times？！
You can decide freely.
The surrounding conditions・・・you cannot control.
However, what is is that you can control even in such times？！
Someone does something to you.
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"react" "don't react"
You are always left with that freedom.
What can I do in this situation now？！
You are always left with that freedom.
What can I do in this situation now？！
Don't be concerned with the results, just earnestly and matter-of-factly continue on with that.
Now, here!
Now, here!
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Adler はnegates the desire for recognition.
People move to try to be liked by the other person.
They end up living the other person's life,
not what they actually want to do.
That makes people unhappy.
People move to try to be liked by the other person.
They end up living the other person's life,
not what they actually want to do.
That makes people unhappy.
Maslow talks about the desire for recognition being important.
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The good type of desire for recognition
・・・Oxytocin type (Living with feelings of gratitude)
Connection! Don't let it escalate from there!
Connection! Don't let it escalate from there!
The bad type of desire for recognition
・・・Dopamine type (Want more and more, always high, more happiness)
This makes people unhappy.
This makes people unhappy.
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Today we will learn from Toshitaka Mochizuki's mail magazine
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■ 「Changing your "way of being" instead of your "way of doing"
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┌1）Zen's way of being 「"10 Ox herd images"
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There is an image called "10 Ox herd" in Zen
It depicts the journey
from the start of training in zen
until enlightenment.
The "cow" here stands for "heart cow".
In other words,
it shows your true heart.
It shows finding your true heart,
and living in integration with it.
The process is as below.
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1）JINGYU
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A man full of desire, has lost his way
and an enlightened person tells him
"your heart escaped in the form on an ox"
The protagonist goes on a
long journey to find the ox
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2）Footprints
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The man through reading books,
begins to learn of knowledge.
Then he soon discovers
that there are footprints of the ox
along the riverbank and under the trees.
However, with only knowledge, he is unable to find the ox itself.
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3）Perceiving the Bull
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At the end of his long training,
he is finally able to see the bull.
As he perceives things with his heightened senses,
he realizes that everything he sees and hear
was the bull.
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4）Catching the Bull
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Even so,
trying to catch the bull
is very much hard work.
He sees him with terrific struggle,
and ties it up and uses the bridle to control it.
It explains the daily struggle to discipline your own heart.
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5）Taming the bull
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After many days of struggle,
slowly the bull grows tamer and grows closer.
He is moving from the stage of merely knowing the truth,
and walking into the arena of becoming integrated with that truth.
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6）Riding the Bull home
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The bull has grown fond of him,
and allows it to be ridden.
Even unfettered, he obeys his master.
In the peaceful place,
riding on the back of the bull,
he sings with the flute as he heads home.
This represents the tranquility and joy that reunion
with the source of existence brings.
However this is not the goal.
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7）The Bull Transcended
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After the long training,
the man finally returns home.
However, the bull is nowhere in sight.
Because he has become one and integrated with the bull.
Even if his appearance is the same,
in his heart, there is no more fear and anxiety.
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8） Both Bull and Self Transcended
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People do not reach the end when they reach enlightenment.
Getting stuck with the you that has reached some great enlightenment is also another problem.
After he forgets about the bull,
he needs to next also forget about himself,
and become "nothing"
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9）Reaching the Source
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"Being lost"
"The struggle"
"Achieving enlightenment"
You can realize from this process
that in fact, you were actually already
an "enlightened" being.
All things die and become "nothing"
and are reborn again.
If that is so, you'll see that
you need only accept everything "as is"
The man came back to the world he was
when he first desired for enlightenment.
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10）In the world
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The man goes out into the town.
He goes into the world where people are living, and mingles there,
and saves them by his enlightened existence.
And it is by no means a difficult thing.
He drinks with his friends,
laughs from his belly and cries from his heart.
Along with the joys of living,
he enjoys every part that is heart so desires.
Those who come in touch with him are mysteriously
saved by him.
┌2）「Changing your "way of being" instead of your "way of doing"
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I learned so much from this "Ox -Herd Picture"
about my way of being as a seminar teacher,
and about seminars.
People forget 90% of what they learned.
And they rarely even put into practice what they learned.
But if through their learning, one tries to change their "way of being"
those who try and err in this area, will one day find themselves changed.
I hope to do what I can for everyone in this era too.
Thank you for reading.
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Reference for today's episode was taken with gratitude from below.
"Free translation -10 Ox herd pictures"
2007 Shikishi
Author Mitsuru Arai
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"How to live calmly working only 3 hours a day" 「
P.28〜31
2019 President Magazine
Author Yohei Yamaguchi
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Toshitaka Mochizuki
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I was contacted about this！
The other day, an Amway ABO had donated products to health care workers 🎁
They applied not thinking they would receive anything, but yesterday received this box to their work place from Amway.
50 sets to health care workers of "Body Bar" and "Bath Fizz" to health care workers together with a message😭✨
50 sets to health care workers of "Body Bar" and "Bath Fizz" to health care workers together with a message😭✨
Those who are working at the hospitals,
don't have enough disinfectant and masks etc and are given limits on how much they can use.
The reality is that my company has done absolutely nothing for these medical staff who have been working so hard every day, taking on the risk and anxiety.
Despite me not even being an employee, just knowing that Amway has thought about me far more greatly moved me🥺🥺🥺✨✨✨
don't have enough disinfectant and masks etc and are given limits on how much they can use.
The reality is that my company has done absolutely nothing for these medical staff who have been working so hard every day, taking on the risk and anxiety.
Despite me not even being an employee, just knowing that Amway has thought about me far more greatly moved me🥺🥺🥺✨✨✨
It is truly a wonderful company‼️‼️😭😭😭✨✨✨
The products I received I shared with my staff at the work place😌✨
I was so moved I had to share this☺️✨
I'd like to do my part to contribute more as well ☺️✨
IIino Keiko and Kei Group
Hitomi Kimura
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Looking forward to today!
