Taku's Blog++: The importance of "small talk!"

Yesterday was at "Yokohama Pacifico"

The energy of 5000 turned into empowerment all at once・・・

Thank you!

This was the number one topic yesterday!

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Kitakon-san brought up this book・・・

Known as "The Coach" in Silicon valley, legendary leader Bill Campbell was loved by many successful people. He built the Apple Kingdom together with Steve Jobs, led Google to the huge enterprise it is now, as well as saved Amazon when it was in a predicament. He passed away in 2016. This book is a priceless book filled with his teachings written by those who followed him. What are the success teachings of this unparalleled leader?

To bring love to work. Business x The law of love

What is important is "people" "love" "trust".

To really lend a listening ear to your colleagues and subordinates, and do your best so that they can shine,
and to actively communicate through small talk and body touch, to be the first in an environment of bringing love to the work place, keeping your promises, and building relationships of trust that will always answer the request of a friend.

To see to the essence of Bill's way of thinking that is behind his actions, and implement it.

"To value people, you must have interest in them." "The Trillion Dollar Coach"

What comes out multiple times in this book is 、“small talk”。

「Human values lead to business results」

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HORENSO（Hokoku (report) ・RENraku (contact) ・SOUdan (discuss)

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ZASSO（Zatsudan (small talk) ・SOUdan (discuss)

"The higher you climb, what decides your success is how many people you can help succeed too."

"There is a "self-help" section in book stores, but no "help others" shelf.

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It was fun, wasn't it！

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Let's learn from Ken Honda's mail magazine！

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Ken Honda Online Seminar (Column)
Why many people live life according to fate
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Last week we talked about "The purpose of life and destiny and fate". This week, let's have a look at "Why many people live life according to fate"

１）They don't believe they can change their life
Even people who think they want to change their lives and participate in a seminar, I've found that when actually talking to them, a good number of them in fact actually believe that it isn't possible for them. These are people who are paying money to participate in a seminar, so for normal people, there's likely an even higher percentage of people who have given up right from the start.

In my own experience having been involved with many people's lives, I know that lives can be changed. But there's an irony here, and it is that those who believe they CAN change their lives CAN change it, and those who DONT believe so, CAN'T. In the end, it is what that person believes that has been realized.

２）Can't face up to destiny
For example, let's say a single man in his 50's is asked what type of girls he likes, and he says "A girl from AKB...." the I think its gonna be rough. It's because he's living in his own illusion.

However, there is only about 10% of the population that can admit that they are living in an illusion. I think what matters is whether they are able to face up to their fate that if nothing changes, then they won't be able to get married, start their own business or write that book.

I feel like its even more difficult for people to face up to their fate, if they have somewhat of a cash flow, or they don't have fights with their spouses or think that things are going well to a certain extent.

３）Don't take actions that lead to change
No matter how much you think, do spiritual work, or pray, in the end, what will actually change people's lives is taking action. If you want to change something, you must take action.

４）A lack of energy/endurance

In any thing in life, a certain amount of energy is necessary in order to make things a reality. Having concentration here is also so important.

５）Your ideal life is ambiguous
Those who are living life according to fate often don't have clarity on their ideal life, or it is ambiguous. Even if they have energy around not wanting to live a life of fate, there's not enough energy to pull them towards the life they want to live. In that case, you will end up running out of energy, because your motivation to change your life is not powerful enough to pull against the force of fate.

So how can you get out of living a life of fate, is to do the opposite of the above 5. Decide you will change your life, face up to your fate, take a good look at your ideal life, and take continuous actions that will lead to change.
Your life will change as much as you decide it will.

Please take on the challenge and start with what you can.
And, I'll see you next week

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It is....

・Believe your life can change

・Face up to your fate

・Take action

・Continuous energy and concentration

・Clarify your ideal life

TAKU

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Appreciation to those in each region！