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Question 1
If you could only make 150 friends in your life time
who would you choose?
Question 2
Have those 150 people also put you in their circle of 150?
Question 3
What are "friends" to you?
From Toshitaka Mochizuki's mail magazine・・・
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■ If you narrow down your "friends" you learn about "yourself"
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"How many true friends or acquaintances do I really have?"
This is something that I sometimes think during the seasons of summer and new year greetings.
Regarding this point,
Robin Dunbar Chief of Evolutionary Anthropology at
Oxford university advocates an interesting theory
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"The number of relations that one person can form is
up to【150 people】"
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Surprising isn't it
Of course its just a hypothesis,
but there are 4 interesting proofs that were discovered.
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There's a signature phrase right？！
Empowering your closing ？
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The sooner you do it
the sooner you'll get results
It's a waste
if you don't do it now
If you don't do anything,
nothing will change
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Psychology of people who respond late
http://djaoi.blog.jp/archives/83769731.html?t=1
Aren't there times when a person doesn't respond to their LINE or e-mail
and so you check their SNS or blog
and they're updating and posting pretty regularly.
I understand the feeling of being a bit peeved thinking,
"If you have the time to update your SNS or blog, then respond already!"
But to give a little more explanation to those who respond late
When we update our blog or SNS
it's "when we want to be alone"
When we want to be alone,
it's often because our minds are cluttered with busyness or stress
so we output that on SNS or on our blogs
to help organize the clutter inside our minds
When inside our minds or cluttered
sometimes it also makes human communication hard,
so that's why sometimes even when we can't get motivated to reply to LINE or chat
there are more frequent updates of SNS or blogs
It's both good and bad but through SNS
it's possible to say things that you can't say through one on one communication
It doesn't mean we don't plan on replying
but we tend to put it off
"I can answer later" and and result of procrastinating
gets to the end of the day
and by the end of the day, or mental and physical energy is at empty
so it gets postponed to tomorrow
and once tomorrow begins the busyness of the day clutters up our brains again
and in order to declutter that
we go into our SNS and blog...it's a bad cycle
And then while all the messages stack up, after a while its like
"It's a bit too late to respond now、、、"
and we completely miss the timing and feel guilty like
"are they mad at me.... I feel bad"
and then become phobic of LINE or e-mail
Of course its entirely the fault of the person who didn't reply
but I'd be happy if people would understand that its not necessarily on purpose to try to make you feel bad or irritate you
If you can't reply, then at least saying "I can't reply now" might be manners, huh
I'll try to be careful of this too.
Anyone else who has this problem, let's be aware and do better together.
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