Tomorrow, Mifuyu Ando will be on the show of
UP&UP's "Group cosulting/Question and Answer Session".
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Hosomi-san and I (lol)
The feeling of "liking" is something that arises unexpectedly
and it is something you cannot control.
Therefore, there is no need to give up.
And it is useless to try to give up.
However
the feeling of 'I want that person for myself' is not unintentional, but intentional.
Your intentions are at work,
so it is something you can control.
What you should give up is the feeling of trying to own it
Keep the feelings of like/love
Give up only the hope of making it yours.
You can then interact normally because you don't have any expectations.
You can talk to him normally because you don't have any expectations.
You can ask him out normally because you don't have any expectations.
and you can deepen the relationship normally because there are no expectations.
As an extension of that relationship, it can create a "friendship"
Or a "love relationship"
In any case, we can follow "fate" without being driven by expectations.
Sometimes things work out because you don't have any confidence.
If you have half-confidence, you'll be crushed by half-expectations
and you may miss out on the opportunities that may lie ahead.
When you let go of expectations, you become free.
When you become free, you can become yourself.
When you become yourself, you become confident.
Be free, be yourself, be confident
You are most beautiful when you are yourself
If it's expectations that undermine who you are, you'll do better if you let go of them.
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I call this active passiveness.
You are the one aiming for it.
So making effort is taking active action.
However, work involves others,
And there are deadlines
And there's timing too
So when it comes to results
I am passive.
Let us have the courage to change what can be changed
the heart to accept what cannot be changed.
and the wisdom to know the difference!
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