Autumnal Equinox Day...
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This is Honami!
I always learn so much here....
↓↓↓I really get this〜〜〜↓↓↓
Each person has his or her own "strengths and weaknesses."
Learn to "listen with your heart".
Is there a way to do it to raise the energy of the other person?
We tend to want to control the other person.
You want to make them do what was successful for you.
But it is nonsense to apply the success laws of the past.
The point is not to control.
There is more than one answer. That's right!
It's easier to connect with the Heavens so let's pick up those messages!
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Why we stop meeting new people as adults?
https://djaoi.blog.jp/archives/89067137.html?t=1
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Who are the 5 people you meet most often？！
Make that ist〜〜〜
You'll pretty much live a life of
an average of those people 〜〜〜
Before you get bored of others
or others get bored of you
Let's change!
To do that,
it's necessary to change the relationships around you!
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I often hear people lament that they don't meet people as adults!
The pattern of encounters for those who get married is
a boyfriend or girlfriend from school,
meetings within the company,
or through introductions from friends.
Recently, there has been an increase in the number of encounters through matching apps and social networking services, but encounters without mutual acquaintances seem to be risky in their own right.So if possible, it would be safer to meet people with whom you have mutual acquaintances.
There are many men out there who are looking to meet someone for the wrong reasons, such as a one-trick pony, a fake elite with a fraudulent background, or a wife-beater posing as a bachelor.
But you've already broken up with your student boyfriend, the opposite sex in your company is out of your romantic circle, and you don't feel comfortable asking friends for introductions, so you're already stuck with adult dating!
When you were a student, relationships were fluid and changing, but once you enter the workforce, relationships become fixed.
At work, you see the same faces every day, and even if you want to start a hobby, you don't have the time, money, or energy to do so.
Sometimes you go out downtown on weekend nights, but aren't interested in the frivolous men who approach you at such places.
On your day off, by evening you find your mind already contaminated with work.
Just a repeat of the same kind of week endlessly, and there's no sign of meeting anyone.
What's wrong is that the relationships don't change.
In order to change relationships, you have to change the environment, but for example, even if you just get promoted one rank, your relationships will change.
Even if it is not a promotion, a transfer can completely change relationships.
However, I think that many women are conservative about their work, and tend to stick to their current position, uninterested in either a promotion or transfer.
Women with strong upward mobility and those who are interested in a different type of work are more likely to meet new people, even at an odd age, due to the change in human relationships.
If you're fed up with the same old routine, maybe it's time to change your environment for a change in your relationships!
Even if you don't meet anyone there, having a change in your relationships is a lot of fun!
Maybe you don't want a boyfriend, but are just fed up with your current unchanging relationships.
I think you should continue your efforts to change your environment regularly to optimize & renew your relationships!
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Thank you for joining me for morning udon!
Guess who I met in the bullet train?！
MIHIRO MATSUDA！
Thank you
