Today I'm going from Osaka to Toyama via Kanazawa.
This sushi restaurant was really, really good!
There were so many who were shy, and they wouldn't come up on stage.
So I went down to them〜〜〜
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We will learn from Takamasa Ikeda!
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September is coming to an end.
It feels like we are accelerating from here all the way to the end of the year.
How we prepare for the next three months will determine the year 2023.
It is no exaggeration to say that next year 2023 will be determined by how we prepare for the next three months.
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■When you're angry, it shows what kind of person you are
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Today, I'd like to share with you what the world's bestselling author Robert Kiyosaki is telling us
Robert Kiyosaki says, "When you are angry, it'll show you who you really are."
Many people, he says, fall into one of the following five types when they get angry about a bad situation.
１）Someone who lies.
They lie: "I didn't do this," or "No, no, not me."
２）Someone who blames others
They blame others, saying, "It's that person's fault, not mine," or "My boss is wrong and I can't do my best."
３）Someone who justifies.
They say things like,
"I didn't have time," "If I was famous, I could have succeeded," or "I don't really want to do it."
４）Someone who quits right away
They say, "If it doesn't work out, I'm not suited for it," or "If it's this hard, I should do something else."
"I thought it wouldn't work anyway."
５）Someone who denies
They are the type of person who denies the reality in front of them, saying, "I'm doing well," "I'm getting results," and "I'm getting recognition for my efforts."
They deny the reality in front of them without admitting their mistakes.
By becoming one of these five types,
we waste opportunities to learn and grow by making mistakes and failures.
Robert Kiyosaki teaches us to "be someone who can take responsibility".
When you can say, "I learned because of that experience," you are taking responsibility for your life.
Robert Kiyosaki also says this.
"As long as you say, 'I'll never do this again,' you haven't learned much.
Those who have learned much are grateful for the experience, saying, "I'm grateful I had this experience."
At first glance, it would seem that the person who is determined to "never, ever do this again."
But Robert Kiyosaki, who has seen people from all walks of life who said, "I'll never do this again" make similar mistakes over and over again.
The point is not to deny or grieve that the event happened.
It is whether or not you learned enough from the event to change your life.
I try to minimize frustrating or upsetting events if at all possible.
However, when you still bump into them, please remember the contents of this issue.
"You know the true self when you get angry."
I hope you find some hints here.
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So true!
Something happens, and we get a
wounded heart saying, "I am a 00 person."
After that we begin to "collect evidence".
It's true, I'm not loved after all.
See, that's right, they don't love me.
And so...
And so the belief becomes deeper and deeper.
The way to stop this life of evidence-gathering is
is to say, "I have learned from that event!"
Taku
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Relationships are based on observation, communication and acting skills.
https://djaoi.blog.jp/archives/89081873.html?t=1
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To put it bluntly, there is no such thing as a not shy person.
There are differences between individuals but the degree of shyness does not vary much.
So how do sociable people overcome their shyness and interact with others?
The answer is "acting ability."
People who have trouble interacting with others, often are too honest and
they try to be their true selves.
However, the true self is a crude thing that can only be shown to those who you are comfortable with.As a result, they can't show their true selves to others, and they end up becoming all silent.
Sociable people never try to show their true selves right away.
They act out their "social self" in their interactions with others.
It is an act to avoid making others feel uncomfortable.
In the world, this is called "courtesy".
Socializing people exchange courtesy with each other first.
Then they gradually open their hearts to each other.
Eventually, they will be able to have a relationship with each other as they really are.
No one opens their heart to someone who has no courtesy.
Therefore acting is an essential skill for getting close to people.
However, there is no script.
You have to improvise your lines.
What kind of words do they want?
What kind of reaction should I give to make them happy?
Or what are they trying to say?
What kind of conversation should I have to elicit those words from them?
Observe the other person and produce the atmosphere of the situation.
This is the power of observation and communication.
Let go of your self-consciousness about how you are seen by the other person.
Be interested in the other person and be careful not to make him or her feel uncomfortable.
There is no one you can't get along with if you use your observation, communication, and acting skills!
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From a friend
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I saw a YouTube video that said to chant "Tohokami emitame" 40 times... so I watched it... and after about the 10th time, I was sound asleep! LOL 🤣💨💨
Thank you〜〜
I was pretty close〜
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Possible to be less than 2 hours？！
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Athletics＝Kipchoge sets new world record of 2 hours 1 minute and 9 seconds.
Kipchoge breaks 4-year record in Berlin (Reuters)
https://u.lin.ee/Mh1JArX?mediadetail=1&utm_source=line&utm_medium=share&utm_campaign=none
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［BLACKPINK's album ranked No. 1 on Billboard, the first K-POP female group to do so.
【Basketball】
Japan Loses to France in Women's World Cup, Third Straight Defeat
Japan's chances of advancing to the finals of the tournament look grim.
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Thank you！
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This green onion dressing is so good!
Wow~!
Additive-free!
Try it!
My friend is selling it〜
Vol. 34 Takumi Yamazaki - Dream-Realization Producer
Interview project "Turning Point, Support, and Happiness" for people involved with words
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Today at 6:56 AM.
New Moon in Libra...
Now that Mercury is in retrograde.
Speaking of Libra...
Balance✨
Partnership✨
Relationships✨
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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s
ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”
