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DJ AOI
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No matter where you are now you cannot escape from happiness
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For those who are taking a break from love relationships
they have their own kind of happy,
and those in relationships also have their own happy
The unmarried people have unmarried happiness
and married people have married happiness
The childless have childless happiness
and the parents have parental happiness
In the end, no matter where you are, you can't escape from happiness
However, at the same time,
those who are taking a break from relationships have their own sets of struggles
as do those in love relationships
The unmarried have their struggles
as do the married people
The childless have their own struggles
as do those with children
No matter what position you are in, there are struggles and things you can't escape form
and wherever you are there are both joys and struggles
Those who are good at finding happiness can find it,
and those who only see the struggles will find that too no matter what position they are in.
Your position is not what decides superiority,
each person has their own experience of happiness.
Even if you had a child,
there is no need to pity the person
or to feel guilty
Deciding on happiness or unhappiness is the job of that person alone
So you only need to manage your own state of happiness
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Mr. Mochizuki's mail magazine
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You can learn so much from it!
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Just a little more silence will give you the answer
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At the end of the 20th century
there was an interesting research done.
It was a research done in cooperation with experienced family doctors nationwide on
"how well doctors are listening to their patients"
The study compared the time that the patients felt like they were able to fully share their hearts
and the time that the doctors cut in unable to wait before responding.
What was discovered here that was so wasteful?
Let's look at our age old still of letting the silence do the "listening"
See continuation below
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https://note.com/takaramap/n/nab8b07069565