Monday, November 9, 2020

"Verbal habits" are "character habits"

 Had a power lunch today!!



















 

 

SHIGE, a best selling author who sold over 600,000 copies of hit book in  only this year〜〜〜

 



 

 

【Way of Talking is 90%】

There are ways of talking to be liked 100%

 

More important than your skill, your mental state is important !!!

 

People aren't good at talking in places where they don't feel safe. 

People are talkative in places they feel safe. 


Creating an all-affirming space!!!

You need to create that space. 

 

1)What you have interest in is yourself 

2)Everyone wants affirmation 

3)Everyone likes people who understands them 


If you improve your way of talking 

you will be liked by others!!!

 

Way of talking means way of listening!!!

People like people who smile!

 

Expanding way of talking 

↓↓↓

1)Admiration

2)Iteration

3)Resonate

4)Praise

5)Questions

 

Expression, voice, your whole body!!!!

 

You don't have to talk with people you don't like〜〜〜

You don't need to try to shorten the distance !!!

 

The right way to introduce yourself 

1)Bullet points about yourself

2)Omission 

3)Keywords

 

More than your career history, 

your heart and gratitude 


The right way to listen to someone asking for advice

↓↓↓

Advice is unnecessary 

Resonate

 

 

NG list

・Changing your attitude depending on the person 

・4D words    "but/because/anyway/can't" 

Verbal habits are character habits

・Bad-mouthing

・More than being liked, work on not being disliked 

 

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Dai Tamesue speaks 


"The true identity of limits~ How to get out of the invisible cage"

 

 

What are true limits ?

What decides your limits?

 

What hinders you from running fast? 


Mindset 

↓↓↓

It controls you 

Your beliefs, ways of thinking 


A majority of high school baseball players 

were born in April/May/June! 

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Today I received coaching by Akio Hiramoto! 


I was once again convinced that 


『success』=『vitality』

 

Increasing your vitality as a living being 


To do that ・・・

 

Sleep well 

Eat well 

Play well (lol) 

 

 

Just playing this increases your vitality UP

 

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Today's LINE VIDEO talk 



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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s 

ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”

https://amzn.to/2DYcFkG