2021.1.10
"Mental Training for the era of Air"
Takumi Yamazaki
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People don't change from being told their bad points
They change through being forgiven of those things
http://djaoi.blog.jp/archives/84857735.html?t=1
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I don't know if highly conscious love relationships say this?
Point out each others bad points
Fix those bad points and
work on improving one another
...or something like that
Isn't that rather constraining？
Like a relationship that is controlling one another
I can't help but feel like its a form of bondage
Of course if you're together you might have some complaints
but do you really want them to fix those things?
If there is something that you seriously want the other person to change
I tend to think you should just break up already
Sure there are things that piss me off
but not a single thing I want them to "fix"
Even if you point it out,
change is not something I force
If they want to fix it they should go ahead
and if they like themselves as they are they can stay that way
I might still poke them about things that bug me,
but it won't really change our relationship
I think it's most important that we accept/forgive each other
Otherwise I don't think we can say we are "loving each other"
People don't change by being pointed our their bad points
they change through being forgiven of them
Forgiving is loving
People change
for the people who love them
If you don't start from forgiving (loving)
nothing will change
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Are you prepared to become happy ？
http://djaoi.blog.jp/archives/84857122.html?t=1
Even if the parents are healthy and well
and they are in an environment that is financially well off
if the mother looks unhappy
then children will tend to think they are unhappy as well
Even if you are single mother
or in an environment that is financially tight
if the mother loos happy
children will think that they are happy too
Of course happiness is not just an emotion
It needs some money and some time
If you have children, you need two people's worth of money and time
and whether you can make that money/time for two people
is the minimum hurdle that needs to be overcome
Even if you sacrifice yourself to think "I just want my children to be happy"
as long as you are unhappy, you children will not think that they are happy.
Children are mirrors of their mothers
Are you prepared to be happy?
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"Easy to understand" over "cheap"
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1. There are no companies that went out of business from hiking their price
2. "Easy comprehension" over "easy price (cheapness)"
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