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At Keirin's office,
we talked about the [B Posi].
First of all, each and every one of them is sparkling~~~ That's the most amazing thing of all!
Also, a spirit of contribution that has been overflowing since a past life~~~
To all the staff, thank you so much!
What we talked about…
Honoring both sides!
If you're hesitating, that time is a waste.
Read it!
Yuko-san, thank you so much!
Makomo
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Ayase's divine meal!
Nami-chan's book is out!
Everything you need to know about herbs!
Dinner with Morita-kun in Osaka!
We talked about the joy of living~
“What you use as your driving force determines your results, money, relationships, and the state of your organization.”
1. Your role grows by putting things into practice
The experience of becoming a film director…
Act → hit a wall → search for answers → make a decision → gain strength.
You don't make films because you've perfected yourself as a director; you become a director in the process of making films.
This idea leads into the later discussion of“growing by facing your own challenges.”
2. Look at the engine of action before looking at results
In the conversation, the motivation that produces action is described as an “engine.”
Engine Foundation of action Likely state
Scarcity type Not enough, want to be recognized, lack of confidence Depends on others and gets swept around by circumstances
Black engine Anxiety, anger, competitiveness, self-proof Produces results, but blames or cuts off others
White engine Love, compassion, a desire to be useful to others Contributes, but if too accommodating, ends in self-sacrifice
Platinum / Central engine Independence and contribution, a balance of will and love Creates a cycle in which both oneself and those around are fulfilled
What the speaker aims for is to have both the power to produce results and the power to value people.
3. Earn with the black engine, and the money disappears and you get scammed
The speaker explains this as follows.
“If you make money with the black engine, the money goes out. Things like getting scammed start to increase.”
The metaphor used to explain this is that of a “vessel.”
State Vessel metaphor Speaker's explanation
Earning while feeling scarcity Pouring in only money before the vessel has widened Even when it comes in, it flows back out
Filling yourself and building a foundation to receive You have a vessel that matches the amount coming in You can hold the money
Also thinking of the abundance of those around you Circulate from the vessel to where it's needed Both you and those around you are fulfilled
In this theory, simply increasing the amount you earn is not enough.
It's important to be clear about “what kind of life you want to lead after earning, with whom, and doing what.”
The idea is to create a state in which you can receive abundance, including money, health, relationships, and partnership.
4. If you push through while covering up your emotions, you swing up and down
The “Emotion Map” captures emotions in four states.
Calm state State of strongly moved emotion
Positive Security, acceptance, understanding, relaxation Motivation, challenge, achieving goals
Negative Sadness, loneliness, anxiety, resignation Anger, irritation, blame, aggression
What the speaker sees as the problem is trying to go to the upper side without looking at the emotions on the lower side.
You feel anxiety and self-denial, yet you try hard to “be confident” and “be cheerful.” Then, although you rise for a while, you drop again at the trigger of a failure or a slump.
Self-denial → forced self-affirmation → temporary high → self-denial again.
The conversation calls this repetition a “roller coaster.”
5. Stable growth begins with self-acceptance
What is proposed is, before trying to erase negative emotions, to accept the self that has those emotions.
Forcing yourself up Moving forward from self-acceptance
Avoiding looking at your anxiety Noticing what you are anxious about
Blaming yourself for feeling down Accepting yourself even when you're down
Acting on high spirits Calmly choosing your next action
Recovering each time someone encourages you Building the strength to pick yourself up
The aim is a state in which you can take the necessary actions while keeping a sense of calm.
Methods mentioned for this include introspection, meditation, prayer, and mindfulness.
6. Integrating love and will
In the conversation, the powers involved in happiness are divided into two.
Love Will
Basic role The power to feel happiness The power to move toward happiness
Strengths Understanding, empathy, compassion Decision-making, action, producing results
Challenge when unbalanced Getting swept along, being unable to say what you want to say Pushing through, blaming, cutting people off
Direction of growth Expressing your own opinion Understanding the other person's feelings
People strong in love develop their own will. People strong in will deepen their understanding of others.
The theory is that when both grow, you advance to a state of “producing results while valuing others, without sacrificing yourself.”
7. In an organization, change how you support people when they're feeling negative
The advice given regarding Takumi's organization was the following words.
“Even when you're feeling negative, it's your chance.”
Rather than deciding that feeling down is a failure, treat it as an opportunity to learn about your own challenges.
Member's state What the leader says Strength to develop
Lacks confidence You don't have to deny the self that lacks confidence Self-acceptance
Feels down after failing Let's look at what you can learn right now Ability to reflect
Blames others or circumstances What is something you can change yourself? Initiative
Big swings in energy Whether you're up or down, look at yourself Strength to pick yourself up
In addition to the leader lifting people up every time, it is proposed that individuals be helped to understand their own state and pick themselves up.
8. Use an app to make this process visible
The concept of the app is to turn the theory so far into a form anyone can use in daily life.
Stage What to do in the app
Know your current state Check your current emotions, stress, and state of action
Notice imbalances Look at scarcity, anger, self-sacrifice, and imbalances between love and will
Adjust Choose a method that suits your state
Act From a calm state, decide your next step
Reflect Check the changes and find the method that suits you
The idea is to use a free app as the entry point, leading to AI-based guidance, paid training, and individual sessions. Ideas were also raised to convey the way of thinking through books and novels and to expand through partnerships with companies.
Takumi's advice was to make it an entry point that even people who are struggling, or who are working while angry, can engage with.
9. From individual success toward increasing abundance for everyone
In the second half of the conversation, the purpose broadens from “making myself prosperous” to “increasing everyone's prosperity.”
Fill your own lack → become independent → contribute to others → create a cycle in which both you and those around you are fulfilled.
The speaker describes this direction as “raising the purity.”
“Which engine am I running on right now? Am I moving toward the result I want while taking care of myself and those around me?”
Talking today, I understood myself so well.
There's a me who, naturally and automatically, thinks, “Maybe I could even become a film director representing Japan.”
People tell me, “That's amazing,” but as a child (in the deep countryside, one class per grade) I was fired up about softball and dragged the whole class into it. Most of the kids who got pulled in were reluctantly hanging out with me after school. After all, without everyone taking part, we couldn't even make nine players…
Among them, though, were kids who were “bewitched,” who “got into it,” and whose dreams began. The power to dream is natural.
“Maybe we could make it to the national tournament.”
“Maybe I could become a diamond.”
“Maybe I could get into a national university.”
“Maybe I could go on a date.”
“Maybe I could become a bestselling author.”
“Maybe I could learn to speak English.”
“Maybe I could live overseas.”
“Maybe I could become a film director.”
And those dreams came true.
I do “bewitch” people~~~
Agan-san
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Producer Shimada-san
That was fun~~~
Thank you for all your help!
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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”
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Translated from the original Japanese post: https://ameblo.jp/takumi-yamazaki/entry-12981877456.html