【About the human container/caliber】
SUGOI！ Way of Learning vol 15 Takumi Yamazaki〈Business College〉
Alot of people tell me that this series is good
And this one too・・・
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DJ AOI
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People don't respond to expectations, they respond to support
https://djaoi.blog.jp/archives/87721344.html?t=1
Expectations is
pushing your own expectations (hopes)
on to the other person.
Support means
respecting the thoughts of others.
Expectations is
the curse of trying to control others from above
Support is
the blessing of sharing the other person's feelings
from the same perspective
Expectations is
something that only allows
for the outcome that you want.
Support means
you have the readiness to
accept whatever the outcome.
Expectations is
a denial of the status quo.
Support means
accepting the way things are currently.
People don't respond to expectations.
You have to know that they respond to support.
With that in mind.
If you can't support someone,
Let them go.
That will be for their own good.
and for your own good.
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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s
ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”