My IG live with Amy Okudaira was incredible!
Natural excitement
Farmed (cultivated) excitement
If it's natural excitement
If it's real excitement
Then it will go smoothly.
Because you will be fulfilling your role.
Farmed (cultivated) excitement
Your parents say it's good.
It's highly rated on TV
High social status etc・・・
Excitement that is not real, but rather imprinted on you
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In terms of marriage,
it's kind of like looking at men through merely to see if they meet conditions.
Even if it takes a long time
Something you really want to do = real excitement
If you get attached,
It's cultivated excitement (fake excitement)
It comes from anxiety.
Whether it comes true
or doesn't
you're okay
＝Natural excitement
Is that what you really want to do?
Why did you get married? !
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Because I'm insecure.
What do you want to do? ＝DO
Specifically...
Where do you want to go?
I want to go camping.
I want to write a blog about 00
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Doing what I want to do
in that moment
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You'll be carried along to your goal
I want to do 〇〇→focus on that
Focus on what you have now
what you can do now.
I want to be 〇〇→focus on that
Focus on what you don't hav
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Value what you already have within you
↓↓↓You could listen to it here↓↓↓yumeka.125
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Really, it was a wonderful time!
All of it.
It's all been already decided〜〜〜!
Oda-kun.
I look forward to seeing you next year again on January 11th.
Woah〜！！！