I went to see a solo exhibition〜
Place：GALLERY21
Address ：Minato-ku Daiba 2 chome 6-1
Grand Nikko Tokyo Daiba 3F
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Thank you！
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DJ AOI
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If you decide your own personality yourself
it will hinder your own growth
http://djaoi.blog.jp/archives/84561496.html?t=1
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Your "personality" is not something you were inherently born with, but something that you acquired later
Your current personality is based on your childhood experiences, your role in larger groups, influences of the social cultures at the time, and is a result of the changes you made then to adapt to those environments
A person who tends to be shy was not always shy
and a sociable person was not always that way either
but they changed themselves to adapt to the environment they were put in
and that is creating their "personality" now.
There are always struggles in that process of change
and you've changed together with the struggles of "the true me is not really this way...."
Many people seem to think that the "true me" is something that cannot be changed,
but in fact its something that has been model changed countless times
and it something that will continue to change
That's "growth"
and if you decide on your own personality yourself
it will hinder your own growth
What is really important is to let go of your ideas and beliefs about "your true self"
Realize that "as you are" is something that is fluid and changing,
and can change depending on the container called the environment.
If you have a container called the "ideal you"
you can put yourself in there
What creates your personality is not only your environment
but your habits also play a important role
Your personality is in other words habits in your ways of thinking
and if you change your habits and ways of thinking, your personality will also change.
However, it's said that it takes about 6 months to create new thinking habits (this may vary from person to person)
In other words, in order to change your personality, you need to put forth effort for about 6 months
To put it positively,
a person can change in 6 months
The cost of become your ideal self is 6 months time
I think that's a pretty good deal don't you think?
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Link to Takumi Yamazaki’s
ENGLISH Book “SHIFT”