Wednesday, July 8, 2020

The situation won't improve while you are blaming others


Curios 
Open 
Committed to learning 
Learning and growth more important than being right 
You can see others and situations as your allies 
Can enjoy anything that happens 
Can talk clearly and listen deeply 
Can question beliefs 


___Way of being in our lives right now___


↓↓↓This is the default ↓↓↓


We hard hardwired to be below the line. 
Our brains are programmed to perceive threat. 

When it does, a chemical cocktail courses through our veins 
and we go below the line. 
This was designed to help us survive. 

Our brains often cannot tell the difference between a threat to our physical survival 
and a threat to our ego and identity. 


Things people below the line typically believe that....

There is not enough (money/time/space/energy/love) 
Are defensive 
Committed to being right 
That there is a threat out there 
Find fault and blame 
Get easily overwhelmed 
Gossip 
See the situation as serious 
Choose or avoid conflict for the sake of winning 
Think in terms of good/bad 


But it is not a brain state of 

INNOVTION
COLLABORATION
CONNECTION 
CREATIVITY 


it's a place of just trying to survive! 



Thank you for the learning, Meg!
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Leaders today can't thrive if they are in survival mode!

Ask, "Where am I in this now moment?"

Telling yourself and others the truth about our location begins the great conversation. 



DRAMA TRIANGLE

HERO
VICTIM
PERPETRATOR 


If you notice you entered into one of the roles in this triangle,
you can make a shift to above the line

Realizing when you are trying to be a hero, or are caught in the role of a victim or perpetrator! 
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”Imagination  

is more important 

than Knowledge." 

(Einstein) 

Mr. Noda mail magazine ・・・

Imagination is more important than knowledge!!!

Time for imagination ・・・
Like when you were a child・・・
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Tsutaya Business college・・・
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Rural Entrepreneurship!!!


Starting a business in
the countryside.
There are no successors.
There is alot of initial costs for starting a business in the city.
Starting a business in the countryside also has a high level of happiness. 


Also, start a completely new business from scratch. 

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Today too, from morning 




Jiggling training and then Training with MIO!
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Your sickness won't get better while you are blaming yourself or others【Psychiatrist ・Shion Kabasawa】


Treatment cannot begin 
while you "don't accept it" 

While you are blaming someone else 
or blaming yourself ・・・
You haven't yet been able to accept it 

Anger
↓↓↓
Depression
↓↓↓
Exchange
↓↓↓
Acceptance

It's important to not only accept the sickness 
but also accept what has happened. 

Write it out
Forgive it
Be grateful for it 


In other words, 
while you are blaming others, the situation will not improve. 
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