Tuesday, August 27, 2019

In the end, people become just as they thought



I had a seminar in Sapporo yesterday. 



This seafood is to die for! 



I was able to meet again with people I havent met in a long time. 


Thank you!




This morning was the seminar How to make your dreams come true


There were many unique people gathered!!!

I was able to meet 3 sisters there are 2 more!) ha
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Appreciation to all of you from all over Japan

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Special Interview
Architect Kengo Kuma , Rieko Yamazaki 

 My message through the New National Stadium, by Architect, Kengo Kuma | nippon.com
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 By DJ Aoi-san 

So true

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In the end, people become just as they thought they would 



The more a person is worried that I might be abandoned 
The more likely it is that they are actually abandoned 

The more a person is worried that they might not like me
The more likely it is that they are actually disliked

Whenever you have anxiety or negativity towards a person 
That worry communicates to that person, and it can be taken as distrust or aversion.
There arent too many good-natured people who will continue to believe in those who dont trust them, 
Or continue to like someone who dislikes them, 
So as a result, your own thoughts or fears are what lead you to being abandoned or disliked. 
Basically, distrustful people are always betrayed because they continue distrusting until they actually are betrayed" 

What people cannot betray is kindness and trust 
It's not easy to betray someone who trusts you 
It's also not easy to dislike someone who is kind to, and likes you 
It's in the nature of humans to believe in those who believe in them
and show favor to those who like them  (reciprocity)  

This means that those who love many people
Will be loved by many people

Try imagining 
What type of person, if he/she was in your workplace,
would make work easier? 
What types of person, if he/she was in your workplace, 
would make work enjoyable? 

And then, 
YOU be that person