Anger is ...
A "I can not go today!"
B "Huh? Seriously? I promised you!"
A "I also have a lot of things in me!
B "What does that mean?"
A "Huh !?"
Will develop into
At this time
Without telling your primary feelings
I'm transitioning to a second feeling.
A "I can not go today!"
B "Is it right? Mecha, I'm sad," the primary feelings
A "I'm sorry!"
B "Sad ~" primary feelings
A "I understand. I am sad"
B "Oh ... Not yet accepted" primary emotion
A "I understand.
B "Yes, I understand!"
I really want to expand! ! !
"Yes, right ?! I'm sad, I'm sad."
"Eh ~ but ... really? I promised!" And secondary feelings!
If this comes first, going to the clouds becomes suspicious.
The size of the vessel of "Oh, I should do it!"
Overflow turns into anger! ! !
The closer you are, the closer you are.
Why were you so upset? ! Self-analysis is important!
I learned such a thing yesterday.
Thank you~!
Takumi Yamazaki Book, English ver.
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